The Toys That Will Spice Up Your Sex and the Ones That Won’t

Everyone wants to have hot, amazing sex, and a lot of the time, especially for women, plain old horizontal tango just isn’t going to cut it in the orgasm department. If you want to spice up the bedroom a little but, toys are a great way to go without getting too kinky with it. Here are some toys that are good for beginners, and the ones that you should probably avoid. You can also go the porn route, but you cannot trust scam websites so rely only on the best as seen here to get the absolute cream of the crop as part of your experience.


These toys will rock your world, and they’re easy to use for pretty much anyone, it doesn’t matter if you’re new to toys or an old hand, these are classics, and are fun for both people involved.

Vibrators: Foreplay and During

1-vibeBecause sex isn’t just about putting a penis into a vagina, vibrators can be a great way to warm a girl up before the ‘real’ sex gets started. Vibrators are easy to use and play with, and they’re guaranteed to get a great reaction from anyone using one. Pleasure your partner beforehand or during to get her really fired up, and then you can go for it. You can even watch her pleasure herself first and then really go for it, and prove that you are better than that battery operated boyfriend any day.

Vibrating Shaft Rings

Just stick it on a penis, press go and let the vibrations happen. These rings go on the shaft of the penis and pleasure her clit while the penis is inserted, doubling the pleasure. They are simple and straightforward to use, and can really make your sex exciting, especially when you get the thrust rhythm down with those vibrations really going.

Massage Oils and Lube

3-Massage_Oil_p_39Oh yes. While not actually toys, things like oils and lube feel awesome, whether it’s on your body or on your genitals. Once again, sex isn’t just about inserting your penis into her vagina, it’s about pleasure. Use your hands to pleasure her on the inside, warm her up beforehand. Your sex will be crazy good afterwards.


These toys are just not going to cut it for a variety of reasons, either dangerous for those involved or just awkward to use for couples. Here are a few toys to just avoid, especially if you are new to the game of augmenting your sexual experience.

Metal Cock Rings

2-927726065939878211Do not put a metal ring around a penis that is expending, period. They don’t have enough give and could really end up damaging the penis if used incorrectly or if the size is just a bit off. So save your junk and avoid the use of metal cock rings, because they are quite dangerous.

Non-Vibrating Dildos

While things like beads and other non-vibrating tools can be used to great effect, they can be tricky for first time users. Instead of fumbling around with something that may or may not work, just hedge your bets and go with a simple vibrator. Once you get more practice, feel free to start advancing to the more complicated toys.

Makeshift Toys

NEVER use any toy that is not specifically designed for sex. It is unsanitary, unsafe and can get you into places that you would rather not be. Make sure that any toy you use is clean and safe for you both to use, and avoid horrible infections or injuries that could result from using a dangerous toy.


If something feels uncomfortable for you when you start to or think about using it, you should stop immediately. Don’t push yourself into using anything you aren’t ready for, and don’t torture your body with something that is difficult for you to use. Just keep calm and have fun with it, no pressure. It’s about pleasure, and being nervous or uncomfortable will not make it any better for you. So have fun, be safe, and don’t be afraid to experiment.